When I say sex,it includes,
verbal sex(phone sex,email sex,sexting)
sex..any kind of sexual interaction is sex and even a NON PENETRATION,
still counts as LOVE-MAKING AND LOVE FOREPLAY.
So, whenever I use the word "sex" it includes all aspects of sexuality and
doesn't necessarily just indicate physical penetration of genitalia.
Sex has a thousand facets to it.
So, coming back to the topic on hand...
these days on the internet,I see a lot of SEX TAPES being "LEAKED"
in an effort to monetize the sex you once had with a person.
Sometimes, personal sex tapes or sexual letters ,videos and sexual pictures,
that were once exchanged between LOVERS ( here again, even if a guy goes and BUYS sex with a
prostitute, at that given point of time, those minutes of sex still
makes them LOVERS..maybe the prostitute is a disenfranchised poor
person being exploited for money, but yet, at that given point of
time, they had sex, they were lovers very very momentarily)...
GOSH, I go off tangentially on sentences..ADHD at its best..LOL (Disclaimer:I have NOT been diagnosed with adhd or anything..i just use the term LOOSELY when I blog)
So, yeah, all the personal pictures and letters and videos are
SUDDENLY leaked out to THIRD PARTIES by one of the lovers IN AN
EFFORT to humiliate the other person in public////
MY QUESTION to the person that is LEAKING STUFF dude/dudette, IS
At one point, you had sex ./sexual conversations with this other person. YEAH?
But Now , you have distanced yourself from that very intimate moment
that you SHARED with that person and SUDDENLY you are out and about
exposing that private moment for everyone to see,all in an effort to
humiliate them? What exactly must they be humiliated about?The fact
that they decided to do the foolish thing of wanting to have sex with
an idiot like you?what? Don't you see yourself humiliated too? How come a sex tape where both of you are having sex WITH EACH OTHER , only humuliates that other person?ARE YOU NOT HUMILIATING YOURSELF?
so, by doing so, are you telling everyone indirectly that, "see, this
person had sex WITH ME and thus they are STUPID,coz, who would want
to go have sex with a person LIKE ME, who IN THE FUTURE would think it is
approriate to expose that PRIVATE MOMENT OF INTIMACY to the whole
because, see, THE PERSON THAT LEAKS is the ACTUAL PERSON that MUST feel humiliated
in the end..
coz, obviously , the LEAKER, doesn't repsect themselves much...to the point where they imply that anyone who decided to have sex with a horrible person like them MUST INDEED BE A FOOL..YEAH?
So, When you try to MOCK someone else about having written sexual letters/texts to
you,,when infact they were probaly just replies to your own sexual letters to them, YOU ARE
ONLY MOCKING YOUR OWN MOMENTS OF LOVE AND INTIMACY THAT YOU SHARED
It takes two to tango....and there must only be the two very people
involved that have a right to access to the evidence of such intimate acts
Sharing such intimate acts and letters with third parties , is LIKE MOCKING
also, all these THIRD PARTY BYSTANDERS, who are eager to come running
wanting to read someone else's love letters or watch leaked sex tapes are TRULY stupid,and desperate and voyeuristic and nosy and NAIVE..
Naive in the sense that, if you as a third party somehow imagine that
by LISTENING TO ONE SIDED STORIES where the leaker is leaking selective material, you can guage what is happening or what happened between past lovers, then truly, you don't know the reality of human emotions at all !
It is funny to watch so many unconnected third party commenters under each sex scandal article on the internet...I laugh at the commenters who pass serious judgement and take sides.
AS THIRD PARTIES,to begin with IT IS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS to comment or judge and secondly, NONE OF US will NEVER , EVER, know, what really happened between the two parties actually involved in the issue.
SO, for all the IDIOTS posting REVENGE SEX VIDEOS or photos online...really, YOU ARE ONLY HUMILIATING YOURSELF...you have no respect for your own self.you have given up on yourself and have gotten so emotionally disconnected to everything and everyone to a point of being extremely disconcertingly stoic about what you do in life.
And all the eager consumers of leaked sex videos,please GET A LIFE..do something useful with your life other than wasting time, reading other people's love letter or sex tapes..surely...you can make better use of your time.