Martyrdom vs powertripping inside families-oscar husbands praising their wives' sacrifices

In all these oscar ceremonies and grammy ceremonies...we see a lot of
MALE NOMINEES and there are not that many female nominees..why is
that?
is it because NOT AS MANY WOMEN ARE IN POSITIONS OF making movies or
music and getting qualified on the basis of their NON-BREEDING WORK?

that is a sad situation in itself

and

and,
TO TOP OF THAT SITUATION , which as a 36 yr female surgeon, who is in
the middle of all the REAL ACTION in my profession,the situation that
there are not as many FEMALE OSCAR NOMINEES except , best lead female
actor, who is nothing but a hypersexualized dummy for most part OR A
CARICATURIZED SUPER-WOMAN, ...the situation it irks me..


FEELS LOPSIDED..


now to top off this lopsided situation, WE HAVE , all the male oscar
and grammy winners, COME UP ON STAGE, and thanking their wives for THE
SACRIFICES they had to make for their husbands to get here on the
oscar stage..

WHAT KIND OF SACRIFICES? being a housewife, and not have a job or a
personality or a human role other than being personal companion, sex
concubine, housekeeper and kid caretaker and arm candy at parties..

is it that sacrifice these man are talking about?

AND WHY EXACTLY ARE THESE WIVES, STAY AT HOME SEXUAL PARTNERS?
why don't these women have jobs of their own?
because they are not educated or qualified enough to have any job that
will earn enough money to have the same kind of lifestyle they would
get by just being a rich housewife?


is a rich housewife just a glorified sex pet?

IS THE POOR HOUSEWIFE just cheap unpaid slave labor?


WHAT ARE THESE SACRIFICES THAT THESE OSCAR WINNER MEN, glorify and romanticise?

WHAT THE FUCK?

where are the birth family members of all these housewives? DID NOT
THE BIRTH FAMILY, educate and empower these women enough to enlighten
their brains to a point where they see the meaninglessness and
pointlessness of a housewife..


FOR ALL THE INDIGNANT HOUSEWIVES , reading this and immediately
gearing up to attack me saying, " DO YOU KNOW HOW TOUGH BEING A
HOUSEWIFE IS?"

yeah, I AM NOT HERE CLAIMING THAT BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS EASY..

it is tough

and it is unfair

and it is unnecessary..

and it is a form of sexual slavery being all rosied up in the name of
chauvinistic family values...

what family values?

a family value, where first you FORCE, women to socially not have any
role other than their biology,
AND MAKE IT SO DIFFICULT FOR WOMEN TO GET AN EDUCATION OR A JOB IN SOCIETY ,
so that they are SO DEMORALIZED that they think being a financially
dependant sex pet who also doubles up as breeding machine and triples
up as housekeeper and quadruples up as a companion of the guy,

AND never GETS OFFICIALLY PAID for it all, and anything that she owns
, IS SOMETHING SHE HAS TO CO-OWN with the guy , her husband , WHO
SEEMINgly, IS NOW PROVIDING FOR HER..

"providing"?
WHAT IS HE PROVIDING?

he is gaining free, sex, free labor, free breeding services AND she
needs to earn some money for all of that..AND THE PROVIDING THAT MEN
CLAIM TO DO is just an UNDER-PAYMENTS for all these so called
"services'

AND so, in this very UNFAIR SOCIAL SYSTEM AND ARRANGEMENT,

because most women are uneducated or talentless, THEY ARE POWERLESS
FINANACIALLY and
thus, the only way they weild any power is by MANIPULATING THE MEN IN
THEIR LIFE and

this they do so in semi-fear and very carefully, AND THEY DO IT EMOTIONALLY,

AND one of the biggest tools powerless housewife women use to weild
power by emotional manipulation is by putting this ACT OF MARTYRDOM..

which brings back to the point of the oscar husbands praising their
wives' for their martyrdom...

and honestly?

IN A REAL EQUAL RELATIONSHIP, THERE NEED NOT BE ANY MARTYRDOM AT ALL...

it is mutual helping out, there is mutual companionship and their is
mutual sex...
sex is NOT A SERVICE that women provide men..

AS FAR AS PREGNANCY IS CONCERNED..yes
NATURE CHOSE WOMEN to be powerful and vital in that department..


BUT THE DAYS WHEN offspring or having offspring means having more
human workpower inside farmhouse families is gone..


and thus HAVING CHILDREN. OR WOMEN BEARING CHILDREN FOR THEIR PROVIDER
HUSBANDS, and men benefitting from the numbers and power in numbers of
having as many offsprings is gone too...(THANKFULLY!)


BUT THEN EVEN NOW, in so many son centric cultures, women still use
the one last biological power they have , to offer to BEAR SONS to
bargain for a house to live in or partake of their husband's
earning...


SO, YEAH, and this POWERLESSNESS INSIDE FAMILIES, so many escapist
women, TURN AROUND and pretend or present as MARTYRDOM TO THEIR
HUSBANDS..

LIKE AN APPEAL TO recieve favors...


and it is SHAMEFUL that women are still needing to do that...


EACH WOMAN MUST HAVE A MONEY EARNING JOB OUTSIDE Of her sexual relationship...


keep money out of sex and pregnancies..

pregnancy is biology
sex is LOVE...


don't mesh it up with financial arrangements..

because when you make one sexual partner incharge of doing jobs THAT
PAYS THE MONEY and the other sexual partner in charge doing the
DRUDGERY JOBS of the household and this job is NEVER PAID directly..

THEN IT ENDS UP AS A VERY UNHEALTHY SEXUAL ARRANGEMENT

WHERE

seemingly

ONE PARTNER appears to be doing something very important, that is PROVIDING

and

the other partner IMMEDIATELY ENDS UP LOOKING AND FEELING a subordinate...

AND such a situation needs to POWER-TRIPPING often seen in
chauvinistic , son centric cultures...

and this power tripping causes FALSE BELIEFS AMIDST THE POWER TRIPPING MALES..

who almost believing in fallacious concepts like, " it is a man's
world" and " we are doing a favor by allowing the women to live and by
providing for them " and " we need to patronize and take care of women
coz they are socially powerless"

and so,
first off, IT IS NOT A MAN'S WORLD..coz, first off, for a man to
exist, a woman has to first exist before him and then decide to give
birth to him...

so, IT IS A WOMAN'S WORLD ALL THE WAY..

that is how nature designed it..

nature designed women to be incharge...because of their biology.

nature designed women to make milk out of blood and that is why, WOMEN
ARE PROVIDERS,..NATURE PROVIDERS...
they provide nourishment to the baby on demand..
THAT IS WHAT A PROVIDER REALLY CAN AND WILL BE ABLE TO DO...

SO, yeah...

DEAR OSCAR WINNERS, ESPECIALLY MALES, stop praising your housewives
for their sacrifices..IT IS OFFENSIVE

and yeah, DEAR RICH HOUSEWIFE..what you really are, is a FINANCIALLY
DESPERATE PERSON, WHO GAVE UP AN IDENTITY, just for creature
comforts..

get an education, get a job, get a choice in life, get an individual
identity outside of your sexuality and biology

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