RIGHTFUL BEGGAR?

Women in so many cultures are taught to RIGHTFULLY beg their husbands

or boyfriends for gifts or spending money.

Culturally teaching them that an adult asking

another adult for spending money is OKAY! (which

it is not).

Children asking parents for spending money is okay,but expecting money in

exchange for companionship or sex is like BEING A GLORIFIED PET .

IT IS NOT OKAY and there is no pride in that at all.

TAGS:sociology,women,beggar,financial_independance,self_respect

Passing the ball in the child rearing dept.

yet again, i was reading this blog entry on Peggy's blog about How ultra orthodox israeli women received their biotechnology degrees after recieving training in the field in segregrated classes with intructors trying to teach while still following strict religious stipulations and there was one sentence on there at how, child maitenence was provided to them during the course of the training and also how the cribs were lined at the aisle while they lined up at the graduation ceremony at aisles...hmmmm
here is a copy of the comment i left on there
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btw.i also felt when i read the sentence ,"Baby carriages lined the aisles", that they were trying to somehow put the whole responsibility of child rearing on the women.It was almost like they were sending a subliminal message to the women in general that no matter what they do , they better be equipped to take the whole responsibility of child rearing all on their own.I have seen that in many societies, this kind of indirect discouragement by still making them take full responsibility of the children even if they work oustide , eventually makes the women chose to stay home out of sheer resentment that they have to do double the work even if they work outside and make money anyways, so why not sit home and make the men make money since the men wont help them raise the children.ya know.reverse psychology is some way.family feuds in another way.hmmmmm.
1:22 PM

The wrong reason to want to be a parent

5/29/08 7:15 AM

Sometimes, i look at parents and it makes me mad.
They are so unfit to be parents.
To me, parenting is a noble job , a job of great honor and responsibility.
I find it silly when i see parents who just almost seem to enjoy ordering their kids around.They like to roll their eyes and stifle their tone and set rules for the children just coz it make them feel like they are a somebody with subordinates whom they can control and order around and the sad part is that these subordinates(unlike subordinates in a work situation) that they are bossing around are so tiny that they can't even quit their job and run away from this tyranny.
There are these other group of parents who just want a barbie doll..They like this daily chore of bathing and clothing this lil baby .These parents scare me the most.I mean, the barbie doll of their's is going to to grow up in a year or two and what then are they going to do then? People need to understand that children have their own personality, they deserve to be treated with respect too. And yeah, if you lie a lot in your daily life and then set hard and fast rules your children not to lie to you, trust me, they will end up liars just like you anyways.
CHILDREN LEARN BY EMULATION.SO, SET A GOOD EXAMPLE

The Trouble with NOT being an Average Jane !

5/12/08 2:11 AM

There is a lot of trouble that one faces for not being the Average Jane.
So much trouble, that it distresses me.

A not so good looking person would perhaps think each day that ," Hey !Had I been a lot more good looking than i am, I would have accomplished a lot more things easier !"

I go, Hmmmmm.....
A not so intelligent person would perhaps think each day in class or at work ," Hey ! Had I been more intelligent than i am , I would have had a much easier time than i am having right now !"

I go, Hmmm.......

Now ,Now..Ask me all about How much more difficult it is to be good looking and Intelligent and have it all easy.

In today's time, It appears that You are liked less if you are not as nasty as the next person.
In today's time, It appears that you are liked less if you are perhaps more good looking than the average person at work or in class or even at home.
In today's time, It appears that you are liked less if you are smarter than the rest of them there.

As a person who stands out(unfortunately for my own bad !) in the crowd and

As a person who works hard for what she strives to achieve,

As a person who has the talent to back up that hardwork,

As a person who believes in not being nasty and

As a person who won't bittttc h around ,

As a person who IS proud about the fact that i am blessed with a more than average I.Q,

IT WOULD BE NATURAL TO assume that i would have it easy in life.

Easy, My foot !

ON THE CONTRARY , I THINK that the very fact I am perhaps all of the above makes it more difficult for me.

The main reason for this would probably be because of the changes today's society has undergone.

The demorgraphic changes .Ya know !

A lot of 'non-productive-negative-bashing' takes places in every arena.There is no respect for real talent anymore.All because , the majority of the population had ended up being this lazy ass group of people with a lot of bottled up anger.

WHEN YOU BELONG TO THE 1% OF MINORITY OF HAPPY PEOPLE TRYING TO SURVIVE AMONGST THE REST OF THE RESENTFUL BITTER 99% ANGRY PEOPLE..NO MATTER HOW TALENTED OR GOOD LOOKING OR NICE OR NOT SO NASTY YOU ARE ,,YOU JUST CAN'T SURVIVE.WHY?

cOZ , MAJORITY RULES !

The majority of the population seems to be reeling under this wave of insecurity and nastiness compounded by such levels of mediocricity that when eventually a person who is more accomplished that them comes their way, That person ends up being harrassed and targeted and made to almost feel sorry for being better than them.The mediocre pieces of shite seem to be ruling the roost nowadays.

These less enterprising people must stop harrassing others who work hard to achieve what they do achieve and instead spend their energies on making themselves better to match up to these others that are nasty to.But instead of doing something productive, all they want is , for the more intelligent ones to be as sad and as nasty and as pathetic as themselves. All in an attempt to make themselves feel better about themselves.

Trust me , moaning and bitchhhhing and dirty politics and idle gossip and mudslinging is going to not make you feel better about yourself.You know you are nasty and that knowledge of that truth won't allow to make yourself feel better.

All i am disheartened now is about the fact that the majority now consists of pathetic losers(just had to use this term) -

THE PATHETIC LOSERS

Losers who have no real single person they can trust,

The majority of losers who are not trustworthy themselves,

The majority of losers who have no respect for someone else's talent,

The majority of losers who won't care to make themselves good enough ,

just good enough so that each time they see someone else who is capable and talented they won't feel insecure to such an extent that they will resort to dirty politics.

I am sick and tired of being singled out and targeted all coz the bitchhhh group feels insecure that they pale out in comparison ...

MORAL OF THE STORY ?
Killing the competition by unethical means won't cut it buddies(buddies? Blah !)

LIVE UP TO THE COMPETITION.

MAKE YOURSELF BETTER.

MAKE YOURSELF WORTHY.