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Wednesday, November 18, 2009

The concept of honest 'Self appraisal'.Eliminating Insecurity from your own head!

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Regarding my self appraisal..I have noticed that many people are very
uncomfortable if a person is very aware of their own positives,for
eg.. if they think this person is very pretty , they somehow still
want the pretty person to have some kind of complex and have
insecurities..



 They are more comfortable if a very intelligent person
is not good looking.. etc etc..In short, they want everyone to be
unhappy and insecure in some way..



They get angry if someeone  is very
happy with everything they are..Which is why i often mention that i am
..because I am and it is possible to be..it is all in our hands.I also
do it repeatedly because i have a right to feel assured of myself.



I  cannot sit and feel obligated to pretend insecurity so that the
onlookers can feel nice. I am not vain, but i am confident..
Again, I have noticed that people deliberately try to break my
confidence because they just can't take it.



 My advice to such people
is,, well, see, this is my life, these are my thoughts, I am allowed
to feel proud of myself..if my pride bothers you, move on..The fact
that my pride bothers you only indicates that there is some insecurity
in your heart about your own self and You are angry that i have
managed to eliminate such insecurities.


Think about it

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