sometimes i have this habit of getting angry over and over at the same thing , at the same moments of misbehaviour or disrespect that someone else gets away with and those moments that i allow to go away unreprimanded..Even more than being angry at the culprit for misbehaving or behaving disrespectfully, i would assume that when i relive those moments of anger, all i am more angry about is about the fact that i let them get away with it..
Expressing one's displeasure at an unacceptable situation or behaviour is the best possible option.There is absolutely no use, letting that moment go coz you are not sure if an angry outburst in response to someone else's nastiness is the right thing do .. and then reliving that moment again and again and getting angry over and over again...
But sometimes there are occasions esp with people who have been scheming for days to find a momentary opportunity to get on your nerves where they grope you at the most busy moment and then make a run or when they say somethign nasty while inside the elevator just prior to getting out and such..ya know..these schemers are deliberately doing this anger evoking activity with a malicious scheme where they know they are going to be nasty or creepy and they plan adequately so that they don't give the victim the opportunity to lash back.
What to do with such moments?
well, such abusers , need to be kept at bay and such people can be openly avoided..as in..the next time they get into the elevator and smile at you..never smile back..they don't deserve it.. and if they ask you why you won't smile back , you can discuss the last times nastiness of theirs ...LOL
The gropers on the other hand need to be openly outed in public...that way...they will think twice before trying to molest you in that sneaky manner...and never ever smile in your lifetime at someone who has groped or touched you inappropiately.
Either ways...reliving an angry moment is bad..analyzing it and writing down notes as to what needs to be done to remedy the anger is a better idea..Alteast that is what i have figured out i would do the next time.
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That is the name of this painting of mine..I have some anger when i reminisce about this pedophile that i once dated..The thing is..this pedophilic habit, though confronted by me,,just wasn't done in a forceful manner where i could prove it positively ...Sometimes sex abusers have this very manipulative behavior and they are very prepared each time they get questioned to brush it off without getting caught.hmmmm..Anyways..'patch' kinda describes the darkness in the minds of these pedophiles who are everywhere right around you and if you look close you can out them.
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Lazy ass parents who hate having to take care of kids just end up taking things out of packages and think they are doing their job.Come on, if you didn't have it in your to take care of kids, you should not have focked around to produce kids in the first place.But now that you have biologically done something to be responsible for their birth, do them a favor and give them some good food.Give then natural foods.I have seen a lot of parents, who complain about how tough it is to be a parent and all i see them doing is , opening up packages and pour out the already prepared food onto the kids plates.Yeah right, that is tough?NO really, If you are an irresponsible fock, don't have kids..Oh no, but then, you just had to sleep around and the kids accidentally happen and then you torture the kids you give birth to ..And ofcourse these kids are going to end up with obesity problems not to mention ADD and psychiatric problems.What else can they expect ?HMmm
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