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Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Re-living an angry moment is just a no no

sometimes i have this habit of getting angry over and over at the same thing , at the same moments of misbehaviour or disrespect that someone else gets away with and those moments that i allow to go away unreprimanded..Even more than being angry at the culprit for misbehaving or behaving disrespectfully, i would assume that when i relive those moments of anger, all i am more angry about is about the fact that i let them get away with it..
Expressing one's displeasure at an unacceptable situation or behaviour is the best possible option.There is absolutely no use, letting that moment go coz you are not sure if an angry outburst in response to someone else's nastiness is the right thing do .. and then reliving that moment again and again and getting angry over and over again...
But sometimes there are occasions esp with people who have been scheming for days to find a momentary opportunity to get on your nerves where they grope you at the most busy moment and then make a run or when they say somethign nasty while inside the elevator just prior to getting out and such..ya know..these schemers are deliberately doing this anger evoking activity with a malicious scheme where they know they are going to be nasty or creepy and they plan adequately so that they don't give the victim the opportunity to lash back.
What to do with such moments?
well, such abusers , need to be kept at bay and such people can be openly in..the next time they get into the elevator and smile at you..never smile back..they don't deserve it.. and if they ask you why you won't smile back , you can discuss the last times nastiness of theirs ...LOL
The gropers on the other hand need to be openly outed in public...that way...they will think twice before trying to molest you in that sneaky manner...and never ever smile in your lifetime at someone who has groped or touched you inappropiately.
Either ways...reliving an angry moment is bad..analyzing it and writing down notes as to what needs to be done to remedy the anger is a better idea..Alteast that is what i have figured out i would do the next time.

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