Why do i make so many Anti-porn tweets on Twitter?

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 We as humans must make life-choices where our
lifestyle must not have been responsible for abuse or discomfort to
someone else-directly or indirectly..that is why I yap so much on
twitter about porn .Many men don't even think twice because they are
so caught up in their basal needs that they forget that these are
young girls.. children..(i think I am going to cry..so I shall stop
here)
Would you marry or date a woman who is on a porn site?No? why?
Coz of the social stigma? well, the porn customers are the ones who are the CAUSE of the social stigma..you are paying for this business to survive.So, you are creating the social stigma.
Have you ever personally checked if the woman on the porn site is of legal age-have you checked their birthcertificate?
Have you personally gone and verified their life style? Have you talked to each of those women to see if they were sold into brothels?
Have you personally verified if these women are being underpaid/injected with drugs before each show/ or scared and intimidate?Have you?
NO? I thought so..
which is why i cry for these girls..they have nobody...everyone abuses their bodies  and their poverty~

The concept of "People shopping" while you are still in an old relationship

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I am a 30 year old qualified physician and hence am equipped to write relationship advice. Please email me if you have questions of your own that you want me to write another blog entry about.k?My email is on my profile page.

If something doesn't work out..don't wait till someone better comes along
If a relationship doesn't work for you or you feel  the need to interact with someone else for emotional purposes, then just break up with whoever you are with and are having routine convenient sex with.
YES, you might end up alone, high and dry without all the convenient sex and all, but atleast you are not living in a fake relationship.

I see a lot of people who just continue to say yes to a very semi compatible relationship --just for temporary purposes coz it is so comfortable and  convenient to have someone you can have regular sex with or go out with on weekends. They do that coz they are afraid to be alone. They make such half ass choices out of greed and out of fear of loneliness
Honestly? You should be so much at peace with yourself that you should not be afraid to be lonely.

Also, quickly dropping a current partner, once you come across someone new who seems more compatible is unethical.. ya know.. coz it like you used your old partner till as long as you needed them. and then you drop them.. coz you found something better..Had you dropped them just coz you were not compatible, on your own, without a luring carrot dangling from the stick, that is a whole other story..But if you did that coz you found something better to pursue , it is like use and throw of the old partner

Yes, when you find yourself in a situation where while still in a relationship you start finding someone new much more compatible,
you MUST  break up with your old person.
NOT so that you can rush into the arms of the new person.
BUT, because the old relationship obviously was not right for you.


After you break up with the old person..
a/Wait..
b/Be alone.
c/See how you feel without the old person but without the new person either to immediately pacify you.
coz..you never know..had you not met the new person, you might possibly would have continued to be with this old person..

d/If there were no new person to pacify you.. that is the real test to see ,,how courageous and true to your emotions you are..

e/And yes,, if you feel the need to go back to this old person once you find out that the new person won't quickly run to you and pacify you,,,that is when you know that you are just  a person who is afraid to be alone and will be with anyone who stays with you.

F/what then? Pause, take a deep breath..think, write down stuff. analyze then 

hmmmm..SELF DISCOVERY ensues!

About drawing a circle for someone to grow into, Jason's blogs and anger antidotes

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Jason's blogs work as an antidote to my anger..coz, even without me asking , he will come out with a specific blog entry that is full of advice to tailor made for the situation i am in and then his advice is so wholesome and so inspiring..I totally become like this daughter saying "yes papa" to all the advice he doles out...

Recently he wrote this blog entry http://freshnessfactorfivethousand.blogspot.com/2009/12/sundays-surf-report-from-snowy-banks-of.html

In this entry ofcourse he talks about how he self doubts himself each time he hasn't surfed for long .He wonders if his core is still strong enough, will he be able to play with the waves like before and then really, the doubts are all put to rest once he gets there to the green sea..
As he talks on ..I read these particular set of paragraphs that touched very much.. and again, The advice in there looked almost like it was tailor made for me..
Yet again..I left a long comment for him on there and as is customary, i share it here for my own readers to know what i am upto on the comments sections of the people i love and cherish..LOL

please note that whatever is in green is what jason said and whatever i responded is in red..k?
Here goes
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LECINQBLOG said...

Heya jase, I left a tweet for you on twitter.check it will ya if you haven't looked already Again, you say the most touching things on your blog and then my mind reacts to your ideas, and i start saying more profound things on the comments section and it is all very interactive..Thanks for the exchange of energies this way. You said and I quote

"It is important for me - for you - to have this insight. That is, to know you are sourced. The minute we were conceived we became receivers and transmitters. We are connected to this world, this fantastic universe, and to each other. Our thoughts, speech, beliefs, actions and attitudes are our tools to use to create the ideal life experience inside and out..... If Awesome is what your aiming for, Awesome you will be."UNQUOTE My response:
This is exactly what i keep telling everyone..I have an ad free blog .Yeah and everyone is like, "you should totally put ads and make money for all the beautiful things you put out there"
But all i say is , To me, ideas and views are important.I put those ideas out there for other people to see a different point of view, think about them, adapt them if they understand my view and then write back to me.. give back to me in ideas and love.That is the pay back I am looking for ..Ideas do matter. They make a difference.I scream and scream at my blog and twitter,just so that atleast one person each day finds their life changed because of my positive ideas.That is all that matters. **************** Again, you said and I quote: "The same works outwardly for those you love. You can create them as something for them to grow into. You get to draw a circle that represents a way of being and then they get to stand in it and experience being that. FYI: Someone isn’t a particular way already. That’s a limited experience of someone and not a very loving thought. Instead, because everyone has the capacity to be and do big things, you can invent someone as being super fresh, no matter what the past reveals about their persona. Your thoughts have the power to paint someone a beautiful life." unquote MY RESPONSE TO THIS I have to admit jase,After reading this part, i suddenly was reminded of my friend. and then i went and emailed them coz of what you you said here..I tried to create a circle for them to stand inside and grow into.. Thanks jase, thanks for all the profound blogs.. Much appreciated. hugs

December 24, 2009 2:56 AM