The "blessed to have such a husband"syndrome!

This lady blogs each foodblog entry with a line that starts with how
blessed she is to have a husband who just eats whatever she makes.
Blessed?wtf?BLESSED to have a husband who doesn't
participate in the kitchen chores,and just MAKES YOU prepare dinner
?WTF ?what kind of a blessing is that?

OH,WAIT A MINUTE..
Are you a financially dependant female spouse?AAAH.THAT
PROLLY,explains the whole "BLESSING'...given that HE EARNS THE MONEY
that you use to buy the groceries, YET,he doesn't DEMAND you to make
the things he likes and JUST EATS what you make which inadveratantly
is WHAT YOU LIKE TO EAT?Thus, what a GREAT BLESSING IN LIFE IT
IS(Insert my sarcastic tone!)

Twisted are the lanes of familial abuse....Financial control,emotional
control,the sex for money situations,and many such twisted invisible
lanes of abuse I won't and can't dwell on in this blog entry.
IN SON CENTRIC CULTURES, Parents bring up their
famale children WITHOUT much love or inspiration coz ,only children
who are most likely to take care of you in your old age are supposed
to be nurtured with education and love(selfish and petty style of
parenting this)
In such cultures,The girl child is pretty much
abandoned coz,she is most likely going to provide SEX (sex is seen as
some negotiable commodity in the business of marraige in such
cultures) and CHORES,BREEDING SERVICES to her future husband and not
to the birth family.They might feed her but there is no real
nuruturing of the female child emotionally or intellectually in such
selfish SONG CRAZY cultures!
FIRST CULPRIT...social practices that assign strict rules on which
gender must do what.
"First culprit" in what you might ask.First culprit in GENERATING
WOMEN who grow up to have the mindset as to how blessed they are coz
their husband eats what they prepares at dinner.

Given that my parents decided to give me an education and loved me
enough to make me supersmart and have oodles of self esteem,I want to
ask all the wives who feel blessed to have HUSBANDS in the first place
and then husbands who won't ever lay a hand on them in the second
place and thirdly, as AN EXTENSION of the same thought process,WIVES
who feel blessed that their husbands eat whatever they prepare without
a fuss.

HERE IS A LIST OF MY QUESTIONS?Dear blessed wives club,
a/are you financially dependant on your husband?Do you have enough
educational qualifications or a skill set to succesfully get a job
oustide of your home that will be able to finance a lifestyle that
your husband is currently able to provide with his sole earnings?
b/Does your husband have hands and legs?are they functional?then why
is he NOT DOING half of the kitchen chores?Why is he NOT in charge of
half of the dinners, and half of the dishcleaning and half of all
other chores?Why are you the one always preparing dinner?
c/Do you have a daughter?Are you psychologically training her to be
the second grade citizen of yet another family in the future?
d/Do you realize that you have the mindset of a GLORIFIED PET?
Fucking idiots!