The "blessed to have such a husband"syndrome!

This lady blogs each foodblog entry with a line that starts with how
blessed she is to have a husband who just eats whatever she makes.
Blessed?wtf?BLESSED to have a husband who doesn't
participate in the kitchen chores,and just MAKES YOU prepare dinner
?WTF ?what kind of a blessing is that?

OH,WAIT A MINUTE..
Are you a financially dependant female spouse?AAAH.THAT
PROLLY,explains the whole "BLESSING'...given that HE EARNS THE MONEY
that you use to buy the groceries, YET,he doesn't DEMAND you to make
the things he likes and JUST EATS what you make which inadveratantly
is WHAT YOU LIKE TO EAT?Thus, what a GREAT BLESSING IN LIFE IT
IS(Insert my sarcastic tone!)

Twisted are the lanes of familial abuse....Financial control,emotional
control,the sex for money situations,and many such twisted invisible
lanes of abuse I won't and can't dwell on in this blog entry.
IN SON CENTRIC CULTURES, Parents bring up their
famale children WITHOUT much love or inspiration coz ,only children
who are most likely to take care of you in your old age are supposed
to be nurtured with education and love(selfish and petty style of
parenting this)
In such cultures,The girl child is pretty much
abandoned coz,she is most likely going to provide SEX (sex is seen as
some negotiable commodity in the business of marraige in such
cultures) and CHORES,BREEDING SERVICES to her future husband and not
to the birth family.They might feed her but there is no real
nuruturing of the female child emotionally or intellectually in such
selfish SONG CRAZY cultures!
FIRST CULPRIT...social practices that assign strict rules on which
gender must do what.
"First culprit" in what you might ask.First culprit in GENERATING
WOMEN who grow up to have the mindset as to how blessed they are coz
their husband eats what they prepares at dinner.

Given that my parents decided to give me an education and loved me
enough to make me supersmart and have oodles of self esteem,I want to
ask all the wives who feel blessed to have HUSBANDS in the first place
and then husbands who won't ever lay a hand on them in the second
place and thirdly, as AN EXTENSION of the same thought process,WIVES
who feel blessed that their husbands eat whatever they prepare without
a fuss.

HERE IS A LIST OF MY QUESTIONS?Dear blessed wives club,
a/are you financially dependant on your husband?Do you have enough
educational qualifications or a skill set to succesfully get a job
oustide of your home that will be able to finance a lifestyle that
your husband is currently able to provide with his sole earnings?
b/Does your husband have hands and legs?are they functional?then why
is he NOT DOING half of the kitchen chores?Why is he NOT in charge of
half of the dinners, and half of the dishcleaning and half of all
other chores?Why are you the one always preparing dinner?
c/Do you have a daughter?Are you psychologically training her to be
the second grade citizen of yet another family in the future?
d/Do you realize that you have the mindset of a GLORIFIED PET?
Fucking idiots!

Relearning and Unlearning,savasana-Another jason quote and my anecdotes

jason's blogged.
He blogged after a long long time, after I finally tweeted him to
actually blog(I waited for quite a bit before finally I had blog
cravings,upon which,i tweet requested for a blog from him)

Here are few lines from the blog.
QUOTE
I've been re-learning lately that it's best not to think about any of
that stuff and just speak. off the cuff. from the heart.
*****
Real life, even a somewhat routine and boring life, if honored
honestly, provides plenty of great material.
******
I love happy endings. I just loathe the beginnings
******
Because, in summary, the benefit IS the happy ending. Am I right?
******
As an adult, looking back at what I know now, and based on how I feel
today as a practitioner of yoga, I wish my school had added yoga when
I was in kindergarten. Along with pole dancing.
***********
It's non-aggressive, non-competitive, non-religious, and nowhere near
dangerous. I've never seen anyone sprain an ankle or break a nose in a
yoga class. If anything it teaches compassion, patience and focus. And
humility. If you fart
*********
UNQUOTE

You can find the whole source blog of this quote here
http://jasonmraz.com/journal/2013/the-benefits-of-a-happy-ending/

MY ANECDOTES TO HIS BLOG entry:
First off,given that I AM a PHYSICIAN and human physiology expert and
also ,coz i know and can name every single bone,nerve and muscle in
the body(yes,all of them have names and predetermined origins and
endings and functions too)...I CAN SECOND WHAT JASON IS SAYING HERE
about yoga and how it is VERY SCIENTIFIC much more than any other
exercise routine.

AND ALSO, coz i am a sanskrit expert ,I am gonna add a wee bit of
sanskrit LINGUISTIC nugget in here.
SAVASANA, the last resting pose, as jason puts it is actually a
sanskrit phrase which roots from combing words SAVA which means CORPSE
and asana which means pose...So SAVASANA essentially is CORPSE
POSE.:)) Helps the body go to an immensely restful stage much akin to
a corpse..

tHANKEE JASE,,for blogging..and thank you all readers for reading!