About how a PASSIVE , AGREEABLE partner is not good for personal growth in a relationship-MY MED SCHOOL STORIES--July 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U
please note: that publishing someone else's emails,letters,journals,personal pics,videos WITHOUT THEIR PRIOR WRITTEN PERMISSION is a LEGAL OFFENCE...( even if just on blogs or even if it is just redistribution to third parties via email, facebook and other such social media), (even if the aforementioned materials were shared with you by the writer or actual owner themselves).Please take WRITTEN PERMISSION from all parties involved prior to publishing such content.
Please also note that here in these blogs I am only posting EXCERPTS from MY OWN EMAILS to someone else WHOSE IDENTITY remains HIDDEN .No actual personally identifiable information about this other person has been revealed by me in these blogs all in an attempt to protect their privacy and mine as well.
EXCERPT FROM THE EMAIL
START OF EXCERPT
Now, in retrospect, I understand how a passive person who chooses to be agreeable can never do any good to a highly original intelligent person .A relationship with a person who is ready to be passive and agreeable does good to nobody in terms of personal growth.Infact it takes away from the growth and personal producitivity that i could have had had i just been alone (however lonely i would have felt) rather than a person who is agreeable but has no real spark to offer.
I tell you this..coz,,,i just see sometimes that you are very distressed by all this unnecessary public intrusion into your life and it has caused you to change a lil bit over the past couple of years.But trust me, only do what you really want to do.If you find over time that someone you are with(friends or otherwise) is not your type , please dont be afraid to take action and break up with them.
END OF EXCERPT
MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!
I wrote this letter to him in july 2008, and he did break up with whomever he was with back then.IT WAS such a pain for me to watch him go through it all..IT HURT ME VICARIOUSLY.
Also, since then, more mistakes, and I AM JUST TIRED OF WATCHING THIS CIRCUS really....it affects me to see him MESS UP OVER AND OVER...so ADIOS MY FRIEND,,hugs, will always love you on some level but, ENOUGH ALREADY!