About nasty people and gossip mongers,being incapable of revenge--July 2008-LETTERS TO MR.U
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Please also note that here in these blogs I am only posting EXCERPTS from MY OWN EMAILS to someone else WHOSE IDENTITY remains HIDDEN .No actual personally identifiable information about this other person has been revealed by me in these blogs all in an attempt to protect their privacy and mine as well.
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Please don't even bother to react to things floating around in the internet or anywhere else.These people gossip coz they have nothing important to do in their lives.
The gossip mongers are broken people..what is broken can't be put back together..it is like broken glass.
I advice you like this.but yet still, each time i meet another nasty person, i react the same way you do .I get immensely angry and more so when i am inherently incapable of returning their nastiness with nastiness..It just doesn't happen with me.Sometimes i get angry at myself at how i am incapable of revenge.Sometimes i wish i had the capcity to be as nasty as the next person..Yet, i end up going and being nice to everyone..
Sweetie, i get you .It makes me feel less alone when i see you .Atleast i know there is one other person like me.
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MY 2012 POSTNOTE for the blog!!!
Again,maybe this INABILITY to seek revenge is a WISE thing too...THE WHOLE CONCEPT OF REVENGE IS POINTLESS on some level , but again, it probably has a point on some level.
off late, I TRY REALLY hard to GIVE BACK IN GOOD MEASURE..coz, unless you give back, most nasty folks don't even realize that what they did to you was super-cheap and super-nasty.MOST PEOPLE seem to assess the gravity of their actions based on your reactions to their actions.IF YOU SIT THERE AND FORGIVE THEM, they start assuming that what they did to you was OKAY TO DO...
So,yeah, on some level, LETTING THAT OTHER PERSON KNOW is a great idea.;